If you want to make changes to your church, you need to ask yourself this question:
“Am I willing to give the rest of my life to this church?”
Making a significant change in your church is at least a five-year job, if not a 10-year commitment. If you’re not willing to stay for the necessary time, don’t make the changes.
A few years ago, I was talking with a pastor about some changes he wanted to make in his church. I asked him, “How long are you willing to stay?”
“Oh, I’m willing to make a commitment for at least six months.”
Do you know what my advice to this pastor was? If that’s all the time you’re willing to stay, don’t even get started with the changes. Nothing will happen in six months. It’s a waste of time and resources.
If you get in the middle of making significant changes in your congregation and then bail, it’s like leaving a patient on the operating table. A doctor would never quit in the middle of taking out someone’s appendix. He’d get sued. It’s not much better when you quit in the middle of making significant changes in your church.
In fact, you’re just messing up someone else’s ministry. It’s the next pastor who will suffer from your lack of commitment. I’ve seen too many hot-shot pastors come to new churches and make big changes. Then, when a bigger congregation calls him somewhere new, he bolts. At that point, the church has to deal with a big mess. When the next pastor comes along, the church won’t even consider making the changes needed to grow.
If you want to make lasting changes in your church, you need to:
Make a public commitment to stay through change
Any pastor looking to make big changes in a church needs to start with a public commitment to stay throughout the process. I did this at the first Saddleback service in 1980. I told everyone that I was going to give at least 40 years of my life to the church. I wanted people to know that the church wasn’t a fly-by-night operation. If people know you’re not leaving, they are much more likely to put some skin in the game themselves and to stick with you through the changes.
Having coached pastors for decades, I’ve noticed that when the pastor leaves, the problems stay, but if the pastor stays, the problems leave.
Be patient
If your church has plateaued in recent years, it’ll take even longer to make changes. A church that hasn’t grown in size for 10 years has a problem. If you’re patient as a leader, you can turn the church around. But it won’t happen overnight. The longer your church has plateaued, the more time it’ll take to implement important changes.
Any issues your church has didn’t develop overnight. You can’t fix them overnight, either. Since you’ve already publicly committed to being at the church for the long haul, take your time.
I once asked a pilot how he turns around a big plane in the air. He told me that it takes time to make a turn in a big plane. “You can make almost a 90-degree turn in the air, and the plane can handle it, but your passengers will go crazy.” He said even a 45-degree turn is rough on passengers, but they don’t usually notice a 30-degree turn.
That’s why it’s so important that you’re willing to stay at the church for an extended period. You can make a bunch of small yet significant changes over a long period of time. People won’t even notice. It’s when you try to make the changes quickly, in a herky-jerky motion, that people get upset and may not support your plans.
Slow the pace of change and be patient; success takes time.
Just ask Hank Aaron.
On baseball’s opening day in 1954, Milwaukee Braves rookie Hank Aaron didn’t get a single hit in five trips to the plate. He could have quit that day. But five outs didn’t define Hank Aaron. He batted another 12,359 times during his career, and he eventually broke Babe Ruth’s career home run record.
It’s not how you start; it’s how you finish. Your church won’t have the ministry fruitfulness you want unless you’re committed to staying the course to implement necessary changes and being patient in the process.
Hey Pastor Rick,
Thank you for your message. I’m a newly ordained priest and was ordained at the Christ Cathedral in Garden Grove this past July. I’ve been following your work for years and have found so much inspiration and insight in it. I’ve been to a couple of PDC Conferences at Saddleback as well as a couple of Pastor’s Prayer Breakfasts. My first assignment is actually right next door to your church, Santiago de Compostela Catholic Church in Lake Forest. I’m assigned as the assistant priest to our pastor here. I’ve been spending a lot of my time just getting to know the people here and build a good trust and rapport with them. I’ve also encouraged several of our parishioners to reach out to Saddleback to see if there might be an opportunity to collaborate in building God’s Kingdom. Just want to let you know that you’re an inspiration and that I continue to be edified by what you do.
Fr. Martin Vu
This is encouraging. I was taught by a few nationally-respected pastors that a local pastor has up to 5 years to create growth in a church. They cited national research that stated if growth does not happen within the first 5 years, that particular pastor will not be able to lead that particular church to growth. I am half way through year 5 and I still have not figured out how to equip our church leaders to have a greater impact on our community. I have lived with the concern of a 5 year deadline for 3 years. I know there are many factors that play into a church increasing it’s impact for Christ, but reading this article was helpful because I love the church and community and have no desire to move.
Good morning, thanks for returning. I couldn’t agree more with what you just wrote about the changes.
This new pastor at our church is willing to change, and since our first meeting he asked me why people from our beach town wouldn’t attend his church. I told him what the discussions take place when they talk about the SnowBall church. It’s a Pentecostal , they speak in Glossolalia language, and they deliver the word of the Lord screaming with lots of emotion…Do you really think I can change that? I have been following you since my conversion and the fulfillment is there. I go to their small meetings here in Brazil so I get in touch with Christians…but when I go to their church I don’t enjoy because of the screaming; it really changes the focus.
Our children went to live in California and we don’t want to stay in Brazil without them. Sometimes we try to plan our lives and it seems not to go the way we wanted to. I prayed for directions and the Spirit just told me to tell how I feel to this pastor… and I did, it’s all I can do for now.
Thanks for returning, and in October we will be in Oceanside visiting our kids and definitely I’ll be visiting Saddleback as well.
God Bless your lives !
Regards,
Patricia Norton
Dear sir,thank you for the message and blessings.
Thank you Pastor Rick.. I really needed to hear this.
I am willing to gave rest of my life to this church