How to Help Someone Leave a Church Without Hurting the Bride!

Hurt Bride

Most pastors have been there, struggling over the news that someone they love and care about has left the church in a tizzy. It doesn’t matter if the church has a hundred people or ten thousand; it always leaves at least a little sting when they go. This is especially true if they go away mad. We cannot control what people do, but we … [Read more...]

Isaiah’s Keyboard: Returning to God

return key

Seek the LORD while he may be found; call upon him while he is near; let the wicked forsake his way, and the unrighteous man his thoughts; let him return to the LORD, that he may have compassion on him, and to our God, for he will abundantly pardon. (Isaiah 55:6-7 ESV) With open arms and abundant, forgiving grace, God invites … [Read more...]

Jesus at the Beach

beachsand

Earlier this month, Sandy and I spent a couple of relaxing days at Cape May, N.J., where the houses are Victorian, the breezes are fresh, and the beaches are wide. The only downer was the vicious cold I developed just in time for our little getaway. But even that couldn’t take away from the loveliness of our stay. Actually, I used to … [Read more...]

Consistency Counts

Not Giving Up

Statistically, this is the time of year when most people abandon the goals they set just a few weeks ago, giving into the idea that change is either hopeless or just too hard. We often give different names to the reasons for our failures: Time - usually not enough of it. Tough - the task is just too hard. Terrible - to describe how … [Read more...]

Resources For Developing Your Own Life Plan

Life Plan

We’ve been talking about life plans as part of our Strongology as ministry leaders. If you’ve been following this blog for some time now, you know that Strongology is a lifestyle built for maximum ministry while eliminating burnout at the same time. Are you considering developing your own life plan? Here are some resources to get … [Read more...]

Let Peace Guard Your Heart

Inner Peace

And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:7 (NIV) If you lived in a frontier town constantly harassed by raiding parties from an enemy, one option for your military would be to send troops to actually live beside you. These troops would be garrisoned … [Read more...]

Teach Your Congregation 5 Ways to Recognize God’s Truth

Truth.Pursuit

About 40 years ago, I was at a camp in the mountains. Alone in a room, I prayed, “God, if there is a God, I’m open. If you’re real, I want to know you’re real. And, Jesus Christ, if you can change my life, if there is a purpose for my life, I want to know it.” You know what happened? Nothing. I didn’t get goose bumps. I … [Read more...]

Just Love Somebody!

Heart

I tweeted earlier this week that: “True believers are marked by their love. It flows from God through men and women to the world. Want to impact the world? #LoveSomebody” I whole heartedly believe this is true. Last week I sat down with my friend Joel, a man I have much respect for whose love for God and others cannot help but … [Read more...]

Infinite Memory

Technology

Walking last evening in mid-town Manhattan, I was struck, as always, by the vast multitude of people, walking past and with me from all directions. At most, I will “know” these people in the fleeting depth of one glance, barely registering on my consciousness; soon unseated in my very limited memory by a million other sights and … [Read more...]

44 Funny Church Bulletin Bloopers To Make You Smile

Laughing

I hope the people at your church know it is okay to smile every once in a while.  Even laugh occasionally (but not during the pastor's sermon, please!).  Sometimes I think we take the things that happen at church a bit too seriously. Do you know what I mean? No, I'm not talking about things like sin or theology or repentance or … [Read more...]