Why Being a Pastor Is NOT For Everybody

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Baseball Play

I remember a few years ago when a major league baseball player was fined by his team for statements that he made in public. Radio talk shows discussed the matter for several days. Some callers ranted about the right to free speech while others pointed out the employer’s right to set rules for his employee’s behavior.

My favorite caller made a statement like this (paraphrase), “I’m not much of an athlete, but I’m pretty sure I could hold my tongue for the salary of a major league pitcher.” Listening to his comments on the radio that day, I remember saying to myself, “Exactly.”

Later, several of my pastor friends and I laughed at the thought of one of us making inappropriate statements from the pulpit under the guise of the “right to free speech.” However, much like the caller on the radio, we are more than happy to hold our tongue (and watch our lives) for the privilege of serving as pastors.

The pastorate has clearer qualifications and standards than any other profession imaginable.

I Timothy 3:2-7 and Titus 1:6-9 give details of these pastoral standards and qualifications. Here’s a breakdown:

  • Above Reproach (I Timothy 3:2, Titus 1:6)
  • The Husband of One Wife (I Timothy 3:2, Titus 1:6)
  • Sober-Minded (I Timothy 3:2)
  • Self-Controlled (I Timothy 3:2, Titus 1:8)
  • Respectable (I Timothy 3:2)
  • Hospitable (I Timothy 3:2)
  • Able to Teach (I Timothy 3:2)
  • Not a Drunkard (I Timothy 3:3, Titus 1:7)
  • Not Violent (I Timothy 3:3, Titus 1:7)
  • Gentle (I Timothy 3:3)
  • Not Quarrelsome (I Timothy 3:3)
  • Not a Lover of Money (I Timothy 3:3, Titus 1:7)
  • Manages His Household Well (I Timothy 3:4)
  • Keeps His Children Submissive (I Timothy 3:4)
  • Children are Believers -Not Open to Charge of Debauchery or Insubordination (Titus 1:6)
  • Not a Recent Convert (I Timothy 3:6)
  • Well Thought of By Outsiders (I Timothy 3:6)
  • Not Arrogant (Titus 1:7)
  • Not Quick-Tempered (Titus 1:7)
  • Hospitable (Titus 1:8)
  • A Lover of Good (Titus 1:8)
  • Upright (Titus 1:8)
  • Holy (Titus 1:8)
  • Disciplined (Titus 1:8)
  • Hold Firm to the Trustworthy Word as Taught so that He may be able to give instruction in sound doctrine and also to rebuke those who contradict it. (Titus 1:9)

This list identifies key competencies, behaviors, gifts, and character traits that a pastor must possess. These standards do not mean that a pastor has “arrived” as a Christian. Instead, they indicate that He is “arriving.”

In other words, all of the qualifications relate to sanctification. This is a vital component for any pastor because it means he is has been justified by grace through faith in Christ Jesus. He is a sinner made righteous in Christ alone. His continual growth in Christ is an example to the congregation.

Some of the biblical qualifications for a pastor describe gifts or skills bestowed by God. (ie, Pastors must be apt to teach). What we generally refer to as a “call to pastor” is made up greatly by a man’s gifting and desires (I Timothy 3:1) given by God.

Finally, other qualifications speak to the pastor’s reputation. (ie. He must be well thought of by outsiders). The reputation of the pastor is a crucial issue because His role reflects the person of Christ and because his role is only as effective as the degree to which his congregation trusts him.

Although a “morality clause” in a major league baseball contract may include more words than the text of 1 Timothy 3 and Titus 1, it certainly does not carry more weight.

The qualifications for a pastor serve to 1) honor Christ, 2) maintain a level of competency within the church’s leadership, and 3) guard the trust of the congregation. While “freedom of speech” may not apply to the pastorate, the qualifications of role protect the integrity and reputation of a greater message: Freedom in Christ.

Maybe you’re thinking, “wow, pastoring is NOT for everybody.” I think the apostle Paul (who wrote I Timothy 3 and Titus 1) would reply “exactly.”

photo credit: Keith Allison


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Scott Attebery About Scott Attebery

After serving in campus ministry at the University of Central Arkansas and coordinating student conferences for the Department of Church Ministries from 2000-2005, Scott pastored Wyatt Baptist Church in El Dorado Arkansas. In 2008, Scott’s wife, Jill, passed away in an automobile accident. He recalls, “God used our Church to be Christ to my family and me during that time.” After seven years of pastoring, Scott was selected as the Executive Director of DiscipleGuide Church Reources, a department of the Baptist Missionary Association of America. Scott’s most important ministry is to his son, Bryce. They love to play in the backyard and cheer for the Razorbacks together. Scott holds a bachelor of Arts in Bible from Central Baptist College , a Master’s of Divinity from the BMA Theological Seminary, and is a candidate for Doctorate of Ministry from Gordon Conwell Theological Seminary. You can read his blog at ScottAttebery.com.


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