And if your objective is to make disciples…you must know what it is you are trying to make (i.e., What is a disciple?). Once you know that little detail, you will be able to lay out a path that leads to that preferred future.
And to that end, I love this paragraph from Dallas Willard. In my mind it informs what it is that I need to do in laying out the path.
As a disciple of Jesus I am with him, by choice and by grace, learning from him how to live in the kingdom of God. This is the crucial idea. That means how to live within the range of God’s effective will, his life flowing through mine. Another important way of putting this is to say that I am learning from Jesus to live my life as he would live life if he were I (emphasis mine). I am not necessarily learning to do everything he did, but I am learning how to do everything I do in the manner in which he did all that he did. How to Be a Disciple
Still with me? This sets up a fairly clear understanding of the things that will have to be true about a small group ministry that will make disciples.
- It defines what I must do as I develop coaches. I will need do to and for my coaches the things that will help them learn to live their lives as Jesus would live their lives. See also, The Most Important Contribution of a Small Group Pastor.
- It defines what our coaches must do to and for the leaders they are discipling. See also, Skill Training: Equip Your Coaches to Develop and Disciple Leaders.
- It defines what our small group leaders must do to and for the members they are discipling. See also, 8 Habits of a Life-Changing Small Group Leader.